Positions.
Where I take a stand, and why.
Short texts on topics that matter in every person’s life.
Your identity is the key
Why something changes on the outside only once something moves at the core.
Why every person already brings everything they need
What blocks a person can be recognised and changed.
Our reality is our reflection
Why the outside world is a surprisingly good mirror.
Fake your thoughts until you make it
What people tell themselves often enough becomes their reality.
Why deciding is usually not hard at all
It only becomes hard when a decision goes against one’s own needs.
Why people usually make the easy decision
What saving energy does to decisions.
Why head or heart is not an alternative
How decisions really come about.
Why an opinion is not a decision
What a decision is really missing.
What people do to avoid having to decide
Why waiting looks so sensible.
Why people decide for themselves less often than they think
And how self-determined deciding shows.
Good advice does not replace a benchmark
Why even the wisest advice still fits someone else.
Why there will never be one path for everyone
Why a recipe for success only ever fits one person.
Every yes is a no to something else
What lies behind saying no.
What dying people taught me about lifetime
What older people regret at the end.
Success follows: why the path counts
What I measure success by.
What changes when the situation stays
Why knowledge, money and network rarely make the difference.
When couples become opponents
Why change in every relationship begins with one’s own share.